
The popular advice that you can control your reactions in the moment isn’t the full truth — and for moms, it often just adds shame. Discover what you actually do have control over, and how to use it.

What does it really mean to want to be a better mom? Sarah Harmon explores how growth and self-compassion aren’t opposites — and why wanting more for yourself is something to be proud of.
Research states that 50% of your happiness is genetic, 40% is under your control and attributed to activities you intentionally choose to engage or not engage in. That leaves just 10% due to circumstances.